feat(v0.156.0): dead-primary alerting (R-51) + boot desired-state reconciliation (R-52)

R-51: aggregateState's mixed branch returned StateRunning ("partial"), so a stack whose
MAIN container was dead behind live helpers alerted on nothing — immich-server sat Exited
for 18 h, 100 % unreachable, no banner and no app_start_failed (audit F4). New
StateDegraded: a DOWN member whose docker restart policy is always/unless-stopped is a
fault (degraded, a down state); no/on-failure is a finished one-shot and stays benign; an
unreadable policy fails CLOSED. The unhealthy/restarting/paused/unknown exclusions are
byte-identical — folding unhealthy into down is the flapping fix-3 avoided.

R-52: new internal/bootrecon — one bounded start-once sweep at startup (2 attempts, 30 s
apart) for apps an interrupted boot left behind, inside the 90 s boot grace so a success
is silent and a failure still alerts. A zero-container stack is NEVER touched: the UI's
Stop is compose down, so a deliberate stop survives a reboot.

Both features carry a production-path wiring test (the v0.154.0 / v0.91.0 inert-seam
class). The main() assertion is an AST walk, not strings.Contains — the substring version
passed its own red-proof, because a commented-out call still contains the string.

Red-proofs run and restored: mix branch reverted -> "running" on the immich fixture;
boot hook commented out -> wiring test fails; zero-container gate dropped -> the
user-stopped app gets started.

NOTE: controller/cmd/controller/ is matched by .gitignore's `controller` entry, so new
files there need `git add -f` (and ripgrep silently skips main.go without --no-ignore).

controller/internal/report/telemetry.go

@@ -228,7 +228,7 @@ func buildControllerTelemetry(telemetry []metrics.ContainerTelemetry, logs []met
 // etc. are excluded to avoid sending zero-value telemetry to the hub.
 func isStackRunning(state stacks.ContainerState) bool {
 	switch state {
-	case stacks.StateRunning, stacks.StateStarting, stacks.StateUnhealthy, stacks.StateRestarting:
+	case stacks.StateRunning, stacks.StateStarting, stacks.StateUnhealthy, stacks.StateRestarting, stacks.StateDegraded:
 		return true
 	default:
 		return false