v0.89.0: pbsdr self-grant (R-22) + escrow config live-reload + agent-plane poke listener (Direction-2a)

- pbsdr: on a 403 pre-check (non-default storage id, no ACL yet) self-grant via the root wrapper then re-read, instead of aborting before the grant — closes F4/R-22. Red-proof TestSelfGrant_PreCheck403DoesNotAbortBeforeGrant.
- escrow preflight: late-bound CurrentPBSStorageID re-reads agent.json so a pbsdr-seeded pbs_storage_id flips the row green in-process (no restart). Red-proof TestEscrowPreflight_PBSStorageIDLiveReload.
- internal/poke: contentless UDP poke listener bound exclusively to the box WG /32 (port 51822), leading-edge debounced, fires the hub-loop out-of-band trigger for an immediate desired-state cycle. First slice of R-13. Red-proofs TestBindConfinement + TestDebounceCoalescesBurst.

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 | `escrow.Create` | internal/escrow/escrow.go | `Create(ctx, CreateOptions) (CreateResult, R, error)` | PBS-key escrow (zero-knowledge) | Recovery code returned SEPARATELY from the result (anti-log); self-verifies recoverability |
 | `escrow.CeremonyBinary` / `CeremonyArgs()` / `CeremonyOutput` | internal/escrow/ceremony.go | the ONE fixed sudo self-invocation argv + the `--output=json` wire object (v1) | controller-driven ceremony (v0.88.0) | SINGLE SOURCE shared by the localapi exec, the capability manifest entry, and (byte-identically) the FELHOM_ESCROW sudoers line — `TestEscrowCeremonyArgvPinned` + `TestManifestCoveredBySudoers` lock all three. Never flag-helpers, never `--`→`-` (spike §2.2) |
 | localapi escrow ceremony job | internal/localapi/escrow_ceremony.go | `POST /escrow/ceremony` + status + ONE-SHOT claim + preflight | the wizard's agent half | R lives ONLY in `Server.escrowR` (NEVER the job struct — snapshots must be structurally R-free); zeroed on claim/supersede/10-min TTL (`unclaimed_void`); in-memory BY DESIGN (restart loses R safely; re-run supersedes); subprocess stdout is SECRET-BEARING → parsed then zeroed, never logged |
+| `poke.Listener` + `poke.Port` | internal/poke/poke.go | `NewListener(resolve, trigger, port, logger)`; `poke.Port = 51822` | agent-plane immediate-sync (Direction-2a, v0.89.0) | Binds a contentless UDP socket EXCLUSIVELY to the box's WG /32 (`wgtunnel.LoadAssignedAddr`), fires the hub-loop out-of-band trigger. **Port 51822 is a SHARED cross-repo contract** — the hub poke sender + the ep0 `felhom-poke` forced-command target the SAME number; change one → change all three. Contentless (payload ignored), leading-edge debounced (`DebounceWindow`), WG-confined (kernel EKEYREJECTED refuses non-peer /32s). Wired only when `wg_tunnel.enabled` |
+| `wgtunnel.LoadAssignedAddr` | internal/wgtunnel/manager.go | `LoadAssignedAddr(stateDir) (netip.Addr, bool)` | the box's own WG /32 without a Manager | Reads `registered.json`; ok=false until registered; strips the /32 → bare addr (the poke bind target) |
 
 ## 2. Canonical patterns (copy structure from THE named file)